How do you let someone know that you love them? Expressing your love does not always need to
come in a box. It can be simple gestures
that can translate to something very romantic to somebody you love.
Loving someone makes it very easy to give. However, what you give need not always have a price tag attached to it. At the end, it’s the very gesture of love that will be etched in your loved one’s heart. It could be waking up ahead of her to fix the morning coffee or getting a napkin to gently wipe the corner of his mouth during dinner. Even just remembering your anniversary or an important event that happened to both of you a year earlier can send expressions of love. There’s no need for rocket science because someone who truly loves you will understand what you are doing for them.
“My bounty is as boundless as the sea,
My love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, for both are infinite.”
– William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet
Loving someone makes it very easy to give. However, what you give need not always have a price tag attached to it. At the end, it’s the very gesture of love that will be etched in your loved one’s heart. It could be waking up ahead of her to fix the morning coffee or getting a napkin to gently wipe the corner of his mouth during dinner. Even just remembering your anniversary or an important event that happened to both of you a year earlier can send expressions of love. There’s no need for rocket science because someone who truly loves you will understand what you are doing for them.
Especially for women, these gestures will not go
unnoticed. Of course your lady may not
rave over every move that you make, but take heart that she sees the smallest
love expressions that you make. You
don’t need to watch those Hugh Grant or Julia Roberts movies out there. Just sit back and do the right moves to
display your expressions of love.
Small Moves Matter Big Time
You need to constantly do those little things. Life can be quite daunting and we just need
those small gestures to get us through it.
Giving your loved one a hug when you see that worried look on her face
is a big one. Sometimes, you don’t
really need to ask what the problem is but what you did has already given her
the message that everything will turn out well in the end.
Given all the gadgets and machines around us to make life
easier, it is quite ironic that we still do not have enough time for most of
the things we would like to do. This
makes it more important to spend quality time with the person you love. Schedule dates ahead of time and never ever
forget them. In case you cannot be physically together, leave small notes
beforehand in places that your loved one will see when you are apart. Sending love quotes for her or him is one way. A short SMS saying ‘I Love You’ in a
different language will send the heart thumping quickly even for a while as well.. Your loved ones will be thrilled that you
were thinking about them at that moment.
Love Habits
There are other expressions that you don’t even have to
think about. Let them come naturally as
part of everyday routine. These small
things do add up and does the job of filling up your loved one’s love tank.
When you are out walking together, hold each other’s
hands. Watching a movie at home or in a
movie house? Be a man and throw your
hands around her. Writing love letters and sending to him or her Be a woman and rest
your head upon his shoulders. Sending
cute one-liners through chat messengers or mobile apps can be romantic
too.
And make sure your are using all the methods to win your dream guy for you. Take note of your man’s favorite music group or
movie. Check out the music stores for
the latest release of their CD or get him the new DVD. You can even get him tickets to the finals
of the sport of his choice. In case
you’re not into those games, ask one of his buds to join him. Your husband or boyfriend will definitely be
thankful for that. Ask him about his
work as well. Empathize when his
co-workers are not playing their part and be the best cheer leader when he gets
the promotion. Boost his confidence
consistently. When he sees that you are
concerned about his achievements, he will naturally do the same thing for you.
On the other hand, helping the wife with the dishes while
she does the bedtime rituals with the kids will do wonders for her worry
lines. You can even help her cook and
the kids will probably love the idea of eating something that their father
made. For the untrained mind and
heart, these will look meaningless. For
those who are in a long term commitment and know that love involves
responsibilities, these are part of everyday romance. They truly count a lot.
Grand Expressions of Love
Once in a while, you need to have grand expressions of
love. Have you been talking about this
new, swanky restaurant in town? Make
reservations and buy her a new outfit.
If there’s a band in the restaurant, make a request to play your special
song. You can even ask her for a dance
if there’s some space.
Why not finally take the trip that you’ve been dreaming
about? Take her to the Eiffel Tower or
to the Mediterranean for that special anniversary celebration. Top it off with some glittering stones on her
finger or neck. No one can really go
wrong with jewelry.
If you are married with kids and can’t spare time away
from home, have a date at your home.
Wait for your kids to fall asleep and arrange your dining area as if it
were a restaurant. The excitement of
sneaking behind your kids and the new ambiance will send thousands of love
expressions.
Always remember that all these actions are very important
because they are expressions of your heart. Constant communication and expression of love, even in simple gestures like sticking a sweet nothing, be it sweet love quotes for him and her or notes, once in a while is enough to keep the romance warm and pleasurable. They are your body’s manifestation of your affectionate thoughts for
your special loved one. It helps keep
the fire of romance burning. The list is
endless.
While all these are very important, one key ingredient is
for you to understand your loved one.
Since each person is different, one may prefer a love expression over
another. Know what makes your loved
one’s heart smile the most, focus on those areas immensely, and all the other
love expressions will flow freely.
